The truest love in this world is the love you have for yourself. Release all feelings of inadequacy and guilt. Accept yourself for who you are. Appreciate yourself for the good work that the world did not notice. Once you feel good about yourself, people will start reciprocating the feeling.
Give up trying to be perfect. If you think you will wait to do something until you achieve perfection, you will miss many opportunities. You need to act, rather than hanging back due to fear of failure. So get up and get things done